Making friends with others depends entirely on how friendly you are with yourself. It may sound surprising, especially to the self-centered, but this line is loaded with meaning.

Self-friendship demand that you be honest, patient, understanding and forgiving of yourself. Honest with your true motives. Patient with your mistakes and general imperfections. Understanding of your weaknesses. And forgiving of those mistakes. True enough, few ever make real friends out of themselves. Or the word lonelines would never have been coined.

Man is a social being , it is true. But he is also an entire being in himself. He needs just a much time to reconcile with himself as with others. In making friends, he must first of all be his own friend. He must never fear being alone. Aloneness is not loneliness. If you are your own best friend, you will enjoy being alone withourself. But this is seldom the case. There is then basis to conclude that those who look for friends are looking for people to fill in the vacuum of their live. They are not alone but lonely. And one who is not a friend to himself will not be able to make many friends. He will not know how to be one.



We all like to be liked. This is not just a natural inclination. We also fear being disliked or rejected. As a matter of fact, rejection is a very effective means of preventing the commission of crimes and other offenses. We are still very much part of a society which dictates how the members must behave. And this unwritten code of conduct is also the formula for social success.

Not only this, we also need the help of others in our acquisition of, or ascent to success. Time and again, it has been said that no man is an island. We experience a sense of well being and worth when we feel that we are liked.

There are people who are experts in dealing with others and getting their support. They are natural in relating with crowds of different temperaments, occupation and beliefs. Yet there are also many who are unable to, for one reason or another - often springing back to their childhood inabilities. But even the latter will admit that they will be more fulfilled if they could relate with others. If they could have a purposeful involvement with them.

Few things compare with joys of friendship. This is why you want very much to gather friends and keep them. Friends make us glad in times of sorrow. They color our days. They provide much-needed company. They make life more meaningful.

You can certainly attract more friends anytime anywhere. They are always an asset. They are a treasure, in fact. Be rich, happy and complete person by having more friends.

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My example is what i made in my advertising information.
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Here we go...

Step 1.


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a. let's name the form advertising.

b. start with pre-built form. [there is no advertising option from the drop down, so we chose contact form]

c. click next


Step 2.

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b. We need to edit and delete the label on each item.

How to edit or delete [just point your mouse over the selected item then there will appear an option to do]

c. Let us follow my advertising information form [of course you can edit what you prefer].

This is what we made.


d. After you made your form Click next.

Step 3.

a. we can select template to blend with your theme.

b. in here i chose no template.

c. Click next.

Step 4.

a. This is our codes [link, embed, html and form forwarding]

b. we will use the embed.

c. copy the codes

d. paste to your post in blogger

e. save.







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