Every person will need to find four people in their
lives. The First person is you. The Second person
is the one you love most. The Third person is the
one who loves you most. And the Fourth is the
one you spend the rest of your life with. In life, firstly
you will meet with the one you love most, and
learn how love feels. Because you know how
love feels, so you can find the person who loves you
most. When you have experienced the feeling of
loving others and being loved, you will then know
what it is you need most. Then you will find the
person who is most suitable for you, to be able to
spend the rest of your life with.
Sadly, in real life, these three people are usually
not the same person. The one you love most
doesn't love you. The one, who loves you most, is
never the one you love most. And the one you
spend your life with, is never the one you love
most or the one who loves you most. He is just the
person who happens to be at the right place at the
right time. Which person are you in other people's
life?
No person will purposely have a change of heart.
At the point in time when he loves you, he really
loves you. But when he doesn't love you anymore,
he really doesn't love you anymore. When he
loves you, he can't pretend that he doesn't. Same goes,
when he loves you no more, there's no way he
can pretend he loves you.
When a person doesn't love you and wants to
leave you, You must ask yourself if you still love
him. If you also don't love him anymore, do not
keep him just to save your pride. If you still love
him, you should wish him happiness, and hope
that he will be with the one he loves most, not stop
him from it. If you stop him from finding true
happiness with the one he loves, it shows you
already don't love him. And if you don't love him,
what rights do you have to blame him for a change
of heart?
Love is not possessive. If you like the moon, you
can't just take it down and put it in your basin. But
the moonlight still shines upon you. In other words,
when you love a person, you can use another
method of possessing the person. Let him become
a permanent memory in your life. If you really love
a person, you must love him for what he is. Love
him for his good points, and the bad. You can't
wish for him to become like what you like him to
be just because you love him. If he can't change to
become what you like him to be, you don't love him
anymore. When you really love a person, you
cannot find a reason why you love him, you only
know that no matter when and where, good mood
or bad mood, you will wish to have this person be
with you.
Real love is when two people can go through the
toughest problems without asking for promises or
listing criteria. In a relationship, you have to put in
effort and give in at times, and not always be on
the receiving end. Being away from each other is
a type of test. If the relationship isn't strong, then
you can only admit defeat. Real love will never
become hate.
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